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When Boredom Over Sex Strikes

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Nowadays, we are stormed with sexualized advertisements, suggestive TV shows and aggressive articles suggesting that the key to great sex is simply a no-holds-barred approach and a satin thong. Thus, it’s no wonder why so many women or maybe men suffer in silence.

Very few women would dare admitting that they feel unhappy, unloved and miserable in their own bed and are clueless why their husband no longer desires them, wondering where the good sex went? Or has their passion been gradually taken away by domesticity and boredom?

 

 

Given the above premises, can it be rekindled by just having a one free night without your kids, your laundry or any work related deadlines?

It keeps me hanging and longing for answers…

Maybe I just need a little more of tenderness..

Maybe I just have to tell him exactly what I need..

Maybe magic should spark even just by gazing upon his slightly bulging physique..

Maybe it’s just a simple matter of being spontaneous and just doing it..

Expert says that couples with good sex lives, it transpires, meet each other half way. Sometimes one isn’t in the mood, but does it anyway and ends up enjoying it. Sometimes a cuddle is enough.

 According to some happy couples, it’s a simple matter of Just Doing It. A combination of husbands scaling down the pestering and giving more practical help with children and housework, and women simply choosing to have sex, rather than waiting for lightning to strike, was the unexpectedly simple key.

 But in long-term relationships, sexual frustration isn’t usually about sex at all: it’s about loneliness and rejection.

 And maintaining desire isn’t all about hormones and hotel rooms: it’s much more a matter of choosing to show your partner you love them – even if you don’t always feel like it.

 Maybe I just want the chance to be physically closer to him, and to feel loved and accepted in return, despite my stained underarm and round tummy..

Oh yes, maybe exploring and using the so-called sex toys can help me strike out that boredom and make my bed a happy one once again..

It may be difficult to imagine those worlds of tricks and toys, positions, pulsations, vibrations, but maybe it is worth giving it a try and this imagination led me to this site.

Across the Miles Intimacy

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A laidback afternoon for me would be a good time in bed, wearing a lingerie, with my feet brushing through the soft and warm feel of my sheets. That’s my way of hibernating especially when the rain won’t stop outside and the cold wind would numb every tip of my body. But while hibernation means slowing down and a state of inactivity to conserve some useful energy, it will keep my mind awake and my imagination to soar far across thousands of miles between me and my boyfriend – then daydreaming and fantasies start. Unnoticed and unconsciously, my afternoon has just dug another hole in the core of my missing and longing.

 

And so that I would not end up with tears when I transition from hibernating, I liberalize myself with other stuff that interests me. I would match this slow phase with reading – a piece of book or magazine or browsing through the net. Because I consider these laidback moments serene and a perfect time to be alone with myself, I always see to it that I get sensible resolve for my personal issues, inhibitions, doubts, aspirations, etc. Topping my list are usually the topics where I can immerse myself well. And so, sustaining and surviving a long distance relationship always frequents the search engines of Google.

 

I have always been confident that no matter how high and sturdy the walls are and how endless the distance is between two people, as long as the faith for love is strong, they will always end up together. But on one occasion during a friend’s party, I had some good conversation with my high school pals and one of them, out of bitterness proclaims that long distance relationships rarely survive. In a snap, I felt a strike inside my head – I saw myself in the same situation and I didn’t want to lose my grip on what I have always believed in. It made me pull the trigger to find out why and so I asked. He had just ended a 4-year relationship with his girlfriend who’s working in an Arab country. They tried to make communication lines open as always as possible but they could not afford to stand missing a lot of each other and so before things would get even worse and sweet moments become sour, they decided to cool off at first; then, eventually broke up and let time dictate their destiny.

 

The whole long distance breaking-up story of my friend created questions that since then have lingered in my head – reality and fairytale. Whenever I search for topics to read, I would always key in stories of long distance relationships. It even bothered me that most of those I read, at least 80% says that loving from miles apart would usually lasts for awhile and eventually both would realize that they want someone closer.

 

And so instead of reading through heart-breaking stories, I switched to searching for tips on how to make love across the distance work. I got to read creative ways of how each day would feel like you are physically together, some ways of flirting while on chat, messages that will heat him up and call for a hot phone sex, etc. These are just a few of them. And so I have come to my realization that I should no longer be doubting my long distance flame.

 

From those helpful tips, I wanted to be creative on my own – thought of ways on how I can make my man hard in just soft whispers over phone calls, how I can make him wanting more even without real sex, how I can make him think about sex all the time.

 

Of course, before I could start with my plans, I needed to safeguard myself in such a way my man wouldn’t notice that I am initiating the flirt. I didn’t want him to create that kind of impression on me. I wanted to stay just as how he knows me.

 

The perfect time has come – while he kept on telling me that he misses me so badly on a skype night, I started licking my upper lip so he’d notice the gesture. I know that whenever I do that, he’d turn hard and would want to start the game. Then he popped the words I waited for so long to hear – he wanted to do me online. I could feel every bit of his urge and so I continued to touch my lips with my fingers. He likes it when I do that. I slowly reached through my top tank from my neck down and I could see his beaming eyes wanting to see more of my flirting. Then I stopped. I needed to reserve some for the next. I shouldn’t be giving him all at once.

 

More skype nights came and we became more comfortable of being intimate online. After the sweet skype sex, we will discuss stuff about us, share our everyday experiences, talk about our lives apart, crack funny jokes like what we do when we are together, patch issues we never discussed, reminisce the good old days…and so on. Unnoticed and unconsciously, we become closer, love has grown deeper, attitude towards our relationship becomes more mature, we no longer mind the distance between us – we feel more secured.

 

The thought that long distance relationships are hard to nurture and sustain may come from those who are afraid to take risks and get hurt. I have a different view with that of my friend when he decided to break up with his girlfriend because he cannot stand missing her so bad. For me, the more I miss my boyfriend, the more my love grows stronger.

 

Picking him up at the airport for each year’s vacation has always been like the first. The excitement never fades; it’s even more intense every time.


Types Of Sex Toys In Philippines

20091123 GD3 0014 Types Of Sex Toys In Philippines The demand of sex toys to spice up a relationship had also brought by      foreign countries to the Philippines. Sex toys in the Philippines had been seen as a helpful sexual device for both men and women. It controls the sex hormones to give a more pleasurable sex experience.

 

There are wide choices of sex toys but only the most needed and those that can provide guaranteed satisfaction are being used by me and women in the Philippines. Some of these sex toys are now available at the local market and it includes the following:

  • Rabbit vibrator is the most popular sex toys for women not only in the Philippines but also worldwide. It provides more enjoyable experience for both couple. It is easy to use and very effective as it stimulates more on the clitoris part.
  • Cock rings is the most popular sex toys in Philippines for men. Like vibrator, it is also very easy to use and effective. Cock ring is being placed around the penis. It produces more pleasure to women because it tightens the penis making the ejaculation process too slow. It is available in different sizes.
  • Dildo is made from latex, glassy materials or plastic. It can also be used in the anus. It has the vibrating capability like that of a vibrator. It strengthens the vibration to please the couple more.
  • Bullet vibrator provides greater pleasure compared to rabbit vibrator and cock ring. It can be easily controlled making sex more intimate and satisfying. The speed can be controlled likening to woman’s orgasm.

 

Sex toys are available in different sizes and shapes. Despite the various materials used, it still engages to its objectives to give better sexual relationships between couples every time they do sexual intercourse.

Sex toys in Philippines are being used mostly by couples during sexual intercourse. Their objective in using this sexual device is to increase sexual pleasure. It increases the arousal of women and men for sex. The use of these sex toys is to improve intimate relationship of both individuals involved. It also contributes to the relationship to be better.

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