Across the Miles Intimacy

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A laidback afternoon for me would be a good time in bed, wearing a lingerie, with my feet brushing through the soft and warm feel of my sheets. That’s my way of hibernating especially when the rain won’t stop outside and the cold wind would numb every tip of my body. But while hibernation means slowing down and a state of inactivity to conserve some useful energy, it will keep my mind awake and my imagination to soar far across thousands of miles between me and my boyfriend – then daydreaming and fantasies start. Unnoticed and unconsciously, my afternoon has just dug another hole in the core of my missing and longing.


And so that I would not end up with tears when I transition from hibernating, I liberalize myself with other stuff that interests me. I would match this slow phase with reading – a piece of book or magazine or browsing through the net. Because I consider these laidback moments serene and a perfect time to be alone with myself, I always see to it that I get sensible resolve for my personal issues, inhibitions, doubts, aspirations, etc. Topping my list are usually the topics where I can immerse myself well. And so, sustaining and surviving a long distance relationship always frequents the search engines of Google.


I have always been confident that no matter how high and sturdy the walls are and how endless the distance is between two people, as long as the faith for love is strong, they will always end up together. But on one occasion during a friend’s party, I had some good conversation with my high school pals and one of them, out of bitterness proclaims that long distance relationships rarely survive. In a snap, I felt a strike inside my head – I saw myself in the same situation and I didn’t want to lose my grip on what I have always believed in. It made me pull the trigger to find out why and so I asked. He had just ended a 4-year relationship with his girlfriend who’s working in an Arab country. They tried to make communication lines open as always as possible but they could not afford to stand missing a lot of each other and so before things would get even worse and sweet moments become sour, they decided to cool off at first; then, eventually broke up and let time dictate their destiny.


The whole long distance breaking-up story of my friend created questions that since then have lingered in my head – reality and fairytale. Whenever I search for topics to read, I would always key in stories of long distance relationships. It even bothered me that most of those I read, at least 80% says that loving from miles apart would usually lasts for awhile and eventually both would realize that they want someone closer.


And so instead of reading through heart-breaking stories, I switched to searching for tips on how to make love across the distance work. I got to read creative ways of how each day would feel like you are physically together, some ways of flirting while on chat, messages that will heat him up and call for a hot phone sex, etc. These are just a few of them. And so I have come to my realization that I should no longer be doubting my long distance flame.


From those helpful tips, I wanted to be creative on my own – thought of ways on how I can make my man hard in just soft whispers over phone calls, how I can make him wanting more even without real sex, how I can make him think about sex all the time.


Of course, before I could start with my plans, I needed to safeguard myself in such a way my man wouldn’t notice that I am initiating the flirt. I didn’t want him to create that kind of impression on me. I wanted to stay just as how he knows me.


The perfect time has come – while he kept on telling me that he misses me so badly on a skype night, I started licking my upper lip so he’d notice the gesture. I know that whenever I do that, he’d turn hard and would want to start the game. Then he popped the words I waited for so long to hear – he wanted to do me online. I could feel every bit of his urge and so I continued to touch my lips with my fingers. He likes it when I do that. I slowly reached through my top tank from my neck down and I could see his beaming eyes wanting to see more of my flirting. Then I stopped. I needed to reserve some for the next. I shouldn’t be giving him all at once.


More skype nights came and we became more comfortable of being intimate online. After the sweet skype sex, we will discuss stuff about us, share our everyday experiences, talk about our lives apart, crack funny jokes like what we do when we are together, patch issues we never discussed, reminisce the good old days…and so on. Unnoticed and unconsciously, we become closer, love has grown deeper, attitude towards our relationship becomes more mature, we no longer mind the distance between us – we feel more secured.


The thought that long distance relationships are hard to nurture and sustain may come from those who are afraid to take risks and get hurt. I have a different view with that of my friend when he decided to break up with his girlfriend because he cannot stand missing her so bad. For me, the more I miss my boyfriend, the more my love grows stronger.


Picking him up at the airport for each year’s vacation has always been like the first. The excitement never fades; it’s even more intense every time.


nurse quickieSome things happen in the most unexpected place and most unexpected time. I was 19 years old that time when my mother got hospitalized because of pneumonia. I thought that my mother will be out from the hospital in a week time but her stay took longer than expected.

I had a boyfriend that time and he was 20, tall, well rounded guy. My BF and I swapped turns to look after my sick mother.

Since we were both in college and had different schedules, we rarely see each other as one directly goes to the hospital after break time while the other would have to go back to school.

As the days progressed we started missing each other, so my BF asked me to look for somebody to watch for my mother so we could have time to be together even for a day.

We had our first sex about two weeks back then and never had to chance to do it again since my mother got sick. I imagine what was my BF’s feeling and I’m pretty sure that he’s really longing for that. There was even one time that my BF aim his dick on my booty to show that he really missed “doing” it. We have been in the hospital for 3 weeks.. 3 weeks without cuddling, kissing nor sex.

One night my friend arrived at the hospital and my boyfriend quickly asked me to come with him. He pulled me inside the next room where no one was there and started kissing me. I saw my BF with a really horny look on his face and was ready to explode any time. I wanted to stop him but I have to be honest that I loved what he was doing. The next thing I noticed was my guy pulled my skirt down and we were both in the couch on the side of an empty patient’s bed. He started to put down my undies and screwed me like no tomorrow. I had mixed emotions because of the thoughts of excitement and anxiousness that any moment someone could enter the room and see what we are doing, but the act was too overwhelming that I can’t contain myself to stop him, the whole room was filled with moans from both of us. We finished making out within 5 minutes and I can say that it was one of the best. We were about to dress up when a nurse opened the door and was surprised to see us inside the room. But in luck, we were both dressed up and pretended that nothing ever happened, although both of us are covered with sweat and faces that looked like something nasty was just happened! Of course something did hehehe. So we just smiled at each other and hurriedly went to the rest room and clean ourselves.

The following morning the nurse looked at me and had a naughty look on her face, maybe she knew or maybe she doesn’t, but who cares, it was great and worth it!

We all know that when sexual urge comes it cannot choose the situation nor the location,  all you have to do is to be ready all the time.


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Kissing the girl down there

jupiter image2 200x300 Kissing the girl down thereTaken from a female thread, this is a must read. I don’t need to get down on details, I’ll just post here some lovely ladies
testimonials and experiences. Enjoy and happy reading.










Oh my goodness, eto ang yummiest! Big O talaga.

One of my favorites, lalo na pag magaling yung partner mo.

I was blessed to encounter more than a couple who really are masters (at least for my standards) when Cunnilingus is concerned. I totally came to a point wherein I wanted them to stop coz I can’t control the surge of pleasure that it’s totally driving me more than over the edge. The experiences I’ve had were totally crazy but super heavenly. I can say lagpas langit pa nga yata yung orgasm ko and multiple talaga.

My oh my!!! yeah, super BIG O!!

This act never, as in never, fails to give me big, multiple Os.

Feeling ko “talent” na ito ng husband ko LOL. ako na ang sumusuko.

I love when he do this to me nakakabaliw sa sarap.

Winner talaga.

Si hubby wala ng tanong tanong. GO na agad. Hahaha!

This is S-U-P-E-R! My bf did this to me on Valentines night, i never thought I’d moan like I did!

I let bf go down on me for the first time. and i loved it. was wondering nga if anong gagawin niya after he eats me, kung mag stop ba siya to gargle or what, i guess i’m lucky kasi sa tingin ko naman he loved it and super kiss parin siya sakin after. ako pa nga nahihiya kasi i feel super wet down there.

Talap talap! Husby’s addiction! haha!

Hay sobrang super the best sa akin ito, hahhaha grabe wet na wet ako kapag nasa ganyang stage na kami sarapp kaya kumain ni hubby. tapos ibubulong nya pa na ang sarap daw ng Ano ko.. nakkabaliw!

Ako nasasarapan din sobra sobra lalo na pag my bigote. Lol. Minsan di ko talaga pinapashave sya para Gosh, mas masarap.

There you have it, give your partner a nice one. – Pleasure Shop Philippines

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