Masturbation..A Good or A Bad Habit?

mast1  Masturbation..A Good or A Bad Habit?Masturbation is defined by  many as a sexual stimulation of one’s own genitals, usually  to  the point of having orgasm. This means that you do need  a  partner  to  be  able  to  do this, you may ask for help from your friendly  vibrators  and sex toys or just simply use your hands or fingers. You may touch or rub your genitals and breasts (for female) to achieve your desired  sexual enjoyment.  Masturbation in the simplest word is having sex with yourself.

Studies found that masturbation is normal in both genders and applicable in  all ages. Some  surveys say that men actually masturbate more frequent compared to women.  For some, the younger ones masturbate a lot compared to the  older  ones  maybe because of curiosity. In reality, the normal times that  a  person masturbate is actually from several times per day to a week until  a  month  of  not  masturbating  at  all. There  are actually a lot variations  that  you  can do while masturbating.  Some prefer to videotape themselves while doing the act, others would love to have audience to watch them in action while the rest is comfortable masturbating in front of their partners.  Actually  for  the  others  they  feel embarrassed when doing it especially if being seen by someone.

Information from Health Survey shows that there is a great percentage of among  men  and  women  who  actually engaged in “sex in one’s self”. Some people  think that only people without partners are the ones doing the act, what  they don’t know is that most people with regular partners continue to masturbate. For  some, those who masturbate must be experiencing sexually deprivation  but its actually not. Many say that masturbating is related to having  mental  or sexual disorder.  Is masturbating really bad or good for an individual?

Here are some of the benefits of masturbating:

  • having safe sex
  • will not lead to unplanned pregnancy
  • treatment for sexual dysfunction
  • releases sexual tension
  • relaxes your muscles
  •  helps you fall asleep
  • reduces stress
  • enhances self-esteem

The one listed above are the benefits of masturbating in general it is a healthy way of sexual enjoyment. It is also important that you should familiarize your self with your own sexual responses so that you will know how to explain to your partner your needs and wants and it will eventually lead to a satisfying sexual encounters. Understanding what “turns on” the person is actually a great advantage to build the individual’s confidence and make the person feel content.

Here are the list of disadvantages:

  • Damage intelligence
  • Damage eye sight
  • Damage the organ
  • Feel tired and mentally disturb

In general there are a lot of benefits compared to its unsupported disadvantages.  Does this mean that we encourage everybody to do masturbation? Doing that is actually the person’s own preference based on his or her beliefs. If the person feels that it will be beneficial for him or her better do it but for the others who are a bit conservative and concern of what other people might think, they also have the option of not doing it.

How To Buy Sex Toys That You Want?

annoyed How To Buy Sex Toys That You Want?People buy sex toys in the Philippines with the same reason that they have for having sex with their partners. Sex toys are being used solo during masturbation or with a partner during sexual intercourse to enhance the sexual pleasure of both individuals especially when in bed. It is also one of the ways that they can increase sexual orgasm to achieve sexual satisfaction.

First and foremost you should know and consider who will use the toy, the purpose for using it, the look of the sex toy, and the price before you buy sex toys for you and your lover. If you have difficulty in deciding on the information, discuss it with your partner to have a collective decision before dealing with the sex toy that you prefer.

One of the factors to consider is the kind of stimulation. Choose whether to have a light, indirect, moderate, or direct stimulation that you both prefer when you buy sex toys. For women, they should decide whether to purchase a sex toy that looks like a real penis or not. Dildos, one of the sex toys that is available in the market today look exactly a penis or if they prefer not have one there are still lot of options to choose.

Quality of the sex toy varies with the prices of the products. You and your partner must decide and collaborate on how much you are willing to spend for a sexual device that gives you pleasure and excitement during sexual intercourse. If you are both unsure or both beginners in using artificial sex organs, try and invest first on the cheap ones. If you both liked the toy because it gives you the needs for sex then you can upgrade to high quality in the future.

As the sex toys provide the pleasure and guaranteed satisfaction for couples, it must always be treated as a side dish of their relationship and not as a main course especially with their sex lives. It is only for mechanical aspect of their lovemaking or sexual intercourse. Dependency on sex toys during sex will affect the relationship in the long run.

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