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On Frigidity..

image 263 On Frigidity..The term frigidity is defined as the inability of a woman to attain orgasm during intercourse or can be referred to a female sexual arousal disorder. This can also be related to lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity. To have a better understanding of the definition it is the counter part of impotence which is being experienced by male individuals.

This may not be known to many of us but there is a very high percentage of women having this kind of dilemma.  Some research books say that there are 2 kinds of frigidity; the first one is the total lack of sexual desire while the other one still has sexual desire but lacks desire for current partner.  These situations can be acquired through time or lifelong, which means that person has no sexual desire since birth.  In some cultures low sexual desire especially for women may be normal and on the contrary having high desire is a problem for them. This means that the concept whether the sexual desire is in a “normal” level depends on the culture and values of an individual.

Before females are plainly home makers, her main task is to nurse and train the children as well as prepare the clothing and food for the family and all other household chores which for some are very demeaning and more often they are being subjected to abuse because of financial dependency to their male partners. Sometimes this obstructs their sexual responses and psychological development.  Modern females are no longer just wives and mothers they contribute primarily on the finances which supports the whole family. They have now their careers and they are empowered to do everything because of their financial and economic stability.

There are actually a lot of factors affecting the sexual desire of a women, it can be a medical or health condition, psychiatric problem, environment or even her present relationship with her partner (having other woman or even financial stress) which prevent them from reacting to their intimate moments.  There are also females who take medicines which can affect their sexual arousal; example is taking birth control pills.  Sometimes if you feel being degraded because of unusual things present inside your bedroom like using sex toys or hand cuffs (for role play) you tend to respond negatively to your partner’s sexual actions.  For some having a bad experience in terms of intercourse, maybe its not pleasing or plainly the act is not satisfying that’s why they do not feel being aroused?

In our society, we recognize that sexual incompatibility is a problem and it is considered as a stress for the couple, more often it can lead to misunderstanding. But how does a male partner reacts to frigidity?  Some may also lack interest in having sexual intercourse as the female partner is not responding to his actions.  For some, they may care a little because more than anything they value the relationship and the companionship they spent through the years.

Is it LOVE or LUST?

love or lust2 Is it LOVE or LUST?Do you really know the difference between love and lust? If someone is in a relationship or just admiring somebody from afar, it is difficult to determine what you truly feel for that person. How do you spot if it is a true love? You will know that it is love if you are committed to your partner for the rest of your life. You are with that person for a long time and very much aware of his or her flaws and you can’t even imagine life without that person despite your differences. You don’t need anything from this individual but you still need to stay his or her side. In terms of physical intimacy, you feel closer o the person after having sex and you always try thing to keep the flame alive in your relationship. If that person is the one that you think of when you want to share your innermost thoughts, then it must be love. 

Lust on the other hand is defined as a strong sexual desire or overwhelming crave for sexual pleasure like a sex toy. If you are in a relationship and you are looking for someone to boost your ego or you are looking to catch someone to go to bed with wearing that fancy lingerie, maybe what you feel is lust. You need this person because you benefit from him or her sexually or any other things. You don’t even see yourself settling down with this person and can’t act naturally if your with him or her; this is just infatuation or just a simple lust. For some, they can’t deny the fact that they are longing for that lust that helps them to increase their confidence and to feel that they are desirable. Actually men are more inclined to have one night stands while women then to connect love and lust to a higher degree like romance. Like men focus on body parts and things which are pleasing to the eyes,  women are more on security and serious matters

Nowadays, it is really confusing to define love but in this modern time you can actually feel in love even without having regular sex, this is applicable especially for partners who have been together for a long time already. For them, it is no longer the physical attraction that keeps them together but their attachment and commitment to one another that makes their relationship stronger. We now want our partner to give us both stability and affection, respect for our own individuality. We need to provide all the security to our partner that no matter what happens the relationship will stand through the test of time. It is really a challenge to survive especially now that a lot of temptations are present and it is truly impossible to sustain the desire to grow old together unless you really want to make it happen. We all know that love is a wonderful feeling that can be achieved if you have trust and respect for each other.

 

Sex In A Can

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Have you ever had a crush on someone that you almost think beyond your imagination?  If someone is infatuated, this person tends to do foolish acts. You always dream of being with that person and almost love everything about him or her. Even looking at the pictures, touching any part of the person’s body would be a dream come true for you.  Most of us admire famous stars or even porn stars and would like to spend time with these people. But, would this be possible?

In 1998, Steven Shubin came up with the idea of Fleshlight, which has acquired its patent on the same year.  The inventor turns your dream into reality.  What is Fleshlight? It is a brand of sex toys designed for people who would like to experience real flesh inside a can.  This male toy is marketed to heterosexual individuals, those people with different sexual preferences.    It’s like having sex with the real person as the sexual organ is being molded or replicated.

Fleshlight is now the #1 male sex toys in the world.  The sleeves are stored inside a plastic container that helps it attain the look of a flashlight. It is very discreet that you can always stash it in your drawer and  even  if  someone accidentally sees this, it’s hard to tell unless that person  has  an  idea  on  what  is  inside  the can. The inner sleeves are available in female organ, anus and mouth that resemble like an actual human body or part. It has a texture of super skin that feels like you are having an actual sex with the person. You can do different strokes like up and down, right and left or even circular motion. The intense feeling of sexual penetration comes in reality with this toy. It is available in different colors:  flesh, ice/crystal clear, black and even blue to represent different nationalities.

Have you seen the movie American Pie?  My favorite part was when the movie star put his dick inside a hot pie which directly came from an oven. The sensation with Fleshlight will be quite similar except that using a toy will be more hygienic and will give you a better sensation.

There  are  few  tips  that  you  need  to  follow  to  really enjoy your Fleshlight  experience.  First, soak the item in a warm water to adapt its temperature.  Then, use any lubricant so you can freely move the toy in any motion while your organ is inside it. Fleshlight is also considered as discreet sperm collector as the sperm after ejaculation can be housed inside the can.  It is definitely safe compared to an actual sexual activity because it can minimize spread of sexual diseases, premarital sex and early pregnancy. This rubber thing has different versions but can be classified into the following:

Fleshlight  Girls- masturbators molded from private parts of popular female pornstars like Jessica Drake and Asa Akira.

Fleshjack by  Fleshlight ? is designed for gay people, marturbators molded from  private  parts  of popular male pornstars like Brent Everett and Cody Cummings

Make it possible with Fleshlight.  Now, you can now enjoy sex anytime,anywhere with your pornstar crushes!

Homosexuality and Anal Sex

homosexuality usa4 Homosexuality and Anal Sex We  all  know  that there are 2 kinds of gender present on earth, a male and a female but we can’t  deny that fact that there are other sexes in between, they are from the  community of lesbians and gays. Lesbian and gay people are homosexual or those who are sexually attracted to members of the same sex. This means that they prefer the same sex relationship from romantic to just close relationships. Some of them even bring their relationship to another level and decided to have same sex marriage which is acceptable in some parts of the globe.

It is difficult to define homosexuality because some people who are known  to  be  lesbians or gays  enter  or  have  entered  heterosexual relationships. For example, a married man who eventually left his wife of 10 years for a gay person or a now lesbian who had sexual relationship withhis boyfriend of 5 years. So it’s really confusing, that’s why we have asmall percentage of people who engage in themselves in same sex practice or identify themselves as gay or lesbian.

For those who prefer same sex for a partner especially for gays, they are engaged in anal sex or anal intercourse. The term anal sex is widely known as the penile-anal penetration which is also common in lesbian sexualpractices. This is the act of inserting the penis into another person’sanus or rectum to satisfy their sexual need. Fingering and use of sex toys such as butt plugs, anal beads and P-spots can also be considered anal sex.

Homosexual  intimate  moments  include  experimenting  on  penile-anal, mouth-penile  and  hand-anal  and  even  mouth-anal which  can  expose anindividual to different bacteria and micro organisms. We all know that rectum is not designed to do such activity; it is far from the function ofa female vagina.  The latter has its natural lubricants which can easily accommodate the penetration of a male organ.  The female vagina can endure the force and friction that a sexual interaction can bring.  On the other hand, the anus is a delicate part which is intended to eliminate toxins or fecal waste.  Having anal sex will seriously result to damaging the part by frequent friction and stretching.

These sexual relationships between members of the same sex are exposed to the risks of having Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs), physical injuries and for some they even suffer from psychological problems. Having casual sex is not new to some; they are fond of doing “it” with a multiple partners which can lead to the risk of contacting diseases associated with risky sexual practices.  Most of them are susceptible to bacteria which can lead to diseases such as herpes, syphilis, Chlamydia and many more.

If you experience symptoms, do not hesitate to see your doctor. Simple sore throats should not be neglected because it can usually lead to a serious disease like HIV. All we need to do is to take that extra precaution to have safe sex by using condoms or simply by being hygienic during intercourse. Have your regular HIV test because prevention is always better than cure.

Size Matters

size matter4 Size Matters

We are already in a world where super sized meals, toys, cars, jobs or just about every thing else matter. It would be inevitable to think and about whether bigger is actually better for everything.  When it comes to satisfying your partner, do men really think that having that big sized penis really matter? Is it really the size that matters?

Different studies reveal that the size of the sexual organ is one of the concerns of most men today.  Whether you are straight or gay, you would like to increase the length, thickness and even change the look of its girth.  Based  on researches,  majority who are concerned about their organ size  and  sexual  desires  are  men  in their late 20′s and early 30′s and surprisingly,  even men older than 60′s. Some female cannot understand this obsession  about  the  penile  enlargement but vast majority of men thought that  having  more  than  enough  will  make  them a better lover and great performer in bed because we have this connotation that “more is better”.
The size of a male organ differs between men from different races and origin. Some taught that their penis is short but it’s actually not it’s just normal based on their height and weight.  A normal size of a penis is at least 4 cm and 7.5 cm long when erect but still depends on a man’s height and BMI.  Sometimes the organ shortens due to some conditions like weight gain and increase of fat in the pubic area. Men should be conscious on their diet because obesity can lead them to a serious sexual problem like erectile dysfunction and other concerns related to reproduction.

There are also few cases of inborn defects that cause the shortening of the penis, these situations requires surgical operations.  Some even consider having surgery to be able to lengthen their penis but most of them prefer the non surgical methods.  They use herbal preparation and even do regular exercise for penis enlargement.

They believe that the process of exercising penis for about 6 hours a day can actually contribute to the increase.  Some do it by pulling the penis to extend its tissue and it will lead to a satisfying result.  They need to stretch the penis with their hands but you need do it properly otherwise it will result to bruising and damaging of its nerves.

The use of penis pump is also popular and found to be effective when use over the span of 6 months.  Cock Rings can be used to fit around the organ and help augment size and maintain erections. Many companies also offers the  use  of  different  creams, gels and pills to maintain erection during sexual intercourse but these are just temporary remedies.

The growth of the penis is based on genes, hormones and environmental factors.   Many men who are not given a bigger penis, dream of having one. For  those  who would really like to increase their own, it will be best to consult  an  expert who can help you evaluate and find best ways to improve the size of your sexual organ.

Types Of Sex Toys In Philippines

20091123 GD3 0014 Types Of Sex Toys In Philippines The demand of sex toys to spice up a relationship had also brought by      foreign countries to the Philippines. Sex toys in the Philippines had been seen as a helpful sexual device for both men and women. It controls the sex hormones to give a more pleasurable sex experience.

 

There are wide choices of sex toys but only the most needed and those that can provide guaranteed satisfaction are being used by me and women in the Philippines. Some of these sex toys are now available at the local market and it includes the following:

  • Rabbit vibrator is the most popular sex toys for women not only in the Philippines but also worldwide. It provides more enjoyable experience for both couple. It is easy to use and very effective as it stimulates more on the clitoris part.
  • Cock rings is the most popular sex toys in Philippines for men. Like vibrator, it is also very easy to use and effective. Cock ring is being placed around the penis. It produces more pleasure to women because it tightens the penis making the ejaculation process too slow. It is available in different sizes.
  • Dildo is made from latex, glassy materials or plastic. It can also be used in the anus. It has the vibrating capability like that of a vibrator. It strengthens the vibration to please the couple more.
  • Bullet vibrator provides greater pleasure compared to rabbit vibrator and cock ring. It can be easily controlled making sex more intimate and satisfying. The speed can be controlled likening to woman’s orgasm.

 

Sex toys are available in different sizes and shapes. Despite the various materials used, it still engages to its objectives to give better sexual relationships between couples every time they do sexual intercourse.

Sex toys in Philippines are being used mostly by couples during sexual intercourse. Their objective in using this sexual device is to increase sexual pleasure. It increases the arousal of women and men for sex. The use of these sex toys is to improve intimate relationship of both individuals involved. It also contributes to the relationship to be better.

Marriages Saved By Sex Toys In Philippines

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Some couples in the Philippines, one year after their marriage find lack of substance to their sexual relationship. This can cause by dissatisfaction during sexual intercourse. Before the marriage become worse and both individuals become uncomfortable with each other and started messing their marriage life, help must be provided. Sometimes, this problem could be solved by bringing some heat in the bedroom. In this way, the marriage relationship could be saved. One of the solutions to save marriage is to bring excitement and pleasure during sex. Today, sex toys in Philippines are available in wide range of types.

Sex toys bring the excitement and romance of couples in bed. Sex toys were designed for both men and women to best serve their own interests. Sex toys in Philippines are pleasurable during romance and sex unlike sex toys that can be purchased abroad. The reason behind this is that sex toys were created in relation to the way of living of couples in the Philippines.

In the Philippines today, there are sex toys designed for men and women. Only few of these sex toys really give the intimate pleasure that couples can use for a better sexual relationship. Cock ring, dildos, and vibrators to name a few. Vibrators and dildos never failed couples during sex. It keeps them wet all throughout. These sex toys in Philippines releases more orgasm especially in women and that brings the sexual intercourse to a more exciting level of joy and pleasure in bed.

Introduce sex toys in Philippines especially to couples who are married by using different ways. The most basic is to introduce sex toys to partner to bring back the lost desire after your marriage by basic materials such as erotic oils and lotions. If the partner is comfortable with this, then sex toys can be used as another element to spice up the sexual intercourse.

Always remember not to become sex toys dependent individuals because you will not achieve the main purpose of these sexual devices. It only brings back the pleasure that the couples should have whenever they are in bed.

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