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Is it LOVE or LUST?

love or lust2 Is it LOVE or LUST?Do you really know the difference between love and lust? If someone is in a relationship or just admiring somebody from afar, it is difficult to determine what you truly feel for that person. How do you spot if it is a true love? You will know that it is love if you are committed to your partner for the rest of your life. You are with that person for a long time and very much aware of his or her flaws and you can’t even imagine life without that person despite your differences. You don’t need anything from this individual but you still need to stay his or her side. In terms of physical intimacy, you feel closer o the person after having sex and you always try thing to keep the flame alive in your relationship. If that person is the one that you think of when you want to share your innermost thoughts, then it must be love. 

Lust on the other hand is defined as a strong sexual desire or overwhelming crave for sexual pleasure like a sex toy. If you are in a relationship and you are looking for someone to boost your ego or you are looking to catch someone to go to bed with wearing that fancy lingerie, maybe what you feel is lust. You need this person because you benefit from him or her sexually or any other things. You don’t even see yourself settling down with this person and can’t act naturally if your with him or her; this is just infatuation or just a simple lust. For some, they can’t deny the fact that they are longing for that lust that helps them to increase their confidence and to feel that they are desirable. Actually men are more inclined to have one night stands while women then to connect love and lust to a higher degree like romance. Like men focus on body parts and things which are pleasing to the eyes,  women are more on security and serious matters

Nowadays, it is really confusing to define love but in this modern time you can actually feel in love even without having regular sex, this is applicable especially for partners who have been together for a long time already. For them, it is no longer the physical attraction that keeps them together but their attachment and commitment to one another that makes their relationship stronger. We now want our partner to give us both stability and affection, respect for our own individuality. We need to provide all the security to our partner that no matter what happens the relationship will stand through the test of time. It is really a challenge to survive especially now that a lot of temptations are present and it is truly impossible to sustain the desire to grow old together unless you really want to make it happen. We all know that love is a wonderful feeling that can be achieved if you have trust and respect for each other.

 

Rainy Days…

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It’s been 5 days of non- stop raining, the streets are flooded and a lot of people are busy cleaning their houses and waiting for the flood to subside. But for some who live in condominiums and other safe places, who were not affected by the calamity, they consider these days as their rest days.
A lot of people are into social networking such as Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, etc.  There are some who keep on chatting with their friends as there are no other things to do due to class and work suspensions.

It may be considered as a boring long holiday, but I think this is the best time for couples to make intimate moment and find their sexy time.  The cold weather is really good for spending time with each other, to kiss and cuddle.   Cuddling is not only a way to express affection physically but it can also make you feel warm and secured.  Normally we treat rainy days as an excuse to do nothing but for couples to do any indoor activity which can strengthen the bond in their relationship.  There are a lot of things that  couples  can  do  during  rainy  days  it  may be listening to music, watch favorites movies, cook, eat together or even try to reminisce the  special  memories  they had.  They can even have some wine or pamper each other with aromatherapy massage matched with scented candles.

If the couple would choose to have it outdoor, they can also do a walk in the rain and get themselves soaking wet. Rainy days give chance to you and your special someone to have a warm time together and have fun.

How about if you are single?  What do you think you can do to beat this lonely time? Well, you need to be creative. You can’t just sit on the couch and have a movie marathon alone.  I suggest you can play with yourself, go on Cyber Sex or Sex on phone (SOP) or even get a help from your sex toy friend. All you need is a clean and satisfying dildo, a lubricant and a desire to go wild so you can enjoy that cold weather.  Anything is possible during this season, it’s up to you to enjoy and love rainy seasons.

When Boredom Over Sex Strikes

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Nowadays, we are stormed with sexualized advertisements, suggestive TV shows and aggressive articles suggesting that the key to great sex is simply a no-holds-barred approach and a satin thong. Thus, it’s no wonder why so many women or maybe men suffer in silence.

Very few women would dare admitting that they feel unhappy, unloved and miserable in their own bed and are clueless why their husband no longer desires them, wondering where the good sex went? Or has their passion been gradually taken away by domesticity and boredom?

 

 

Given the above premises, can it be rekindled by just having a one free night without your kids, your laundry or any work related deadlines?

It keeps me hanging and longing for answers…

Maybe I just need a little more of tenderness..

Maybe I just have to tell him exactly what I need..

Maybe magic should spark even just by gazing upon his slightly bulging physique..

Maybe it’s just a simple matter of being spontaneous and just doing it..

Expert says that couples with good sex lives, it transpires, meet each other half way. Sometimes one isn’t in the mood, but does it anyway and ends up enjoying it. Sometimes a cuddle is enough.

 According to some happy couples, it’s a simple matter of Just Doing It. A combination of husbands scaling down the pestering and giving more practical help with children and housework, and women simply choosing to have sex, rather than waiting for lightning to strike, was the unexpectedly simple key.

 But in long-term relationships, sexual frustration isn’t usually about sex at all: it’s about loneliness and rejection.

 And maintaining desire isn’t all about hormones and hotel rooms: it’s much more a matter of choosing to show your partner you love them – even if you don’t always feel like it.

 Maybe I just want the chance to be physically closer to him, and to feel loved and accepted in return, despite my stained underarm and round tummy..

Oh yes, maybe exploring and using the so-called sex toys can help me strike out that boredom and make my bed a happy one once again..

It may be difficult to imagine those worlds of tricks and toys, positions, pulsations, vibrations, but maybe it is worth giving it a try and this imagination led me to this site.

Across the Miles Intimacy

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A laidback afternoon for me would be a good time in bed, wearing a lingerie, with my feet brushing through the soft and warm feel of my sheets. That’s my way of hibernating especially when the rain won’t stop outside and the cold wind would numb every tip of my body. But while hibernation means slowing down and a state of inactivity to conserve some useful energy, it will keep my mind awake and my imagination to soar far across thousands of miles between me and my boyfriend – then daydreaming and fantasies start. Unnoticed and unconsciously, my afternoon has just dug another hole in the core of my missing and longing.

 

And so that I would not end up with tears when I transition from hibernating, I liberalize myself with other stuff that interests me. I would match this slow phase with reading – a piece of book or magazine or browsing through the net. Because I consider these laidback moments serene and a perfect time to be alone with myself, I always see to it that I get sensible resolve for my personal issues, inhibitions, doubts, aspirations, etc. Topping my list are usually the topics where I can immerse myself well. And so, sustaining and surviving a long distance relationship always frequents the search engines of Google.

 

I have always been confident that no matter how high and sturdy the walls are and how endless the distance is between two people, as long as the faith for love is strong, they will always end up together. But on one occasion during a friend’s party, I had some good conversation with my high school pals and one of them, out of bitterness proclaims that long distance relationships rarely survive. In a snap, I felt a strike inside my head – I saw myself in the same situation and I didn’t want to lose my grip on what I have always believed in. It made me pull the trigger to find out why and so I asked. He had just ended a 4-year relationship with his girlfriend who’s working in an Arab country. They tried to make communication lines open as always as possible but they could not afford to stand missing a lot of each other and so before things would get even worse and sweet moments become sour, they decided to cool off at first; then, eventually broke up and let time dictate their destiny.

 

The whole long distance breaking-up story of my friend created questions that since then have lingered in my head – reality and fairytale. Whenever I search for topics to read, I would always key in stories of long distance relationships. It even bothered me that most of those I read, at least 80% says that loving from miles apart would usually lasts for awhile and eventually both would realize that they want someone closer.

 

And so instead of reading through heart-breaking stories, I switched to searching for tips on how to make love across the distance work. I got to read creative ways of how each day would feel like you are physically together, some ways of flirting while on chat, messages that will heat him up and call for a hot phone sex, etc. These are just a few of them. And so I have come to my realization that I should no longer be doubting my long distance flame.

 

From those helpful tips, I wanted to be creative on my own – thought of ways on how I can make my man hard in just soft whispers over phone calls, how I can make him wanting more even without real sex, how I can make him think about sex all the time.

 

Of course, before I could start with my plans, I needed to safeguard myself in such a way my man wouldn’t notice that I am initiating the flirt. I didn’t want him to create that kind of impression on me. I wanted to stay just as how he knows me.

 

The perfect time has come – while he kept on telling me that he misses me so badly on a skype night, I started licking my upper lip so he’d notice the gesture. I know that whenever I do that, he’d turn hard and would want to start the game. Then he popped the words I waited for so long to hear – he wanted to do me online. I could feel every bit of his urge and so I continued to touch my lips with my fingers. He likes it when I do that. I slowly reached through my top tank from my neck down and I could see his beaming eyes wanting to see more of my flirting. Then I stopped. I needed to reserve some for the next. I shouldn’t be giving him all at once.

 

More skype nights came and we became more comfortable of being intimate online. After the sweet skype sex, we will discuss stuff about us, share our everyday experiences, talk about our lives apart, crack funny jokes like what we do when we are together, patch issues we never discussed, reminisce the good old days…and so on. Unnoticed and unconsciously, we become closer, love has grown deeper, attitude towards our relationship becomes more mature, we no longer mind the distance between us – we feel more secured.

 

The thought that long distance relationships are hard to nurture and sustain may come from those who are afraid to take risks and get hurt. I have a different view with that of my friend when he decided to break up with his girlfriend because he cannot stand missing her so bad. For me, the more I miss my boyfriend, the more my love grows stronger.

 

Picking him up at the airport for each year’s vacation has always been like the first. The excitement never fades; it’s even more intense every time.


The Big O

34282k4v6a6ut2c 300x204 The Big OThe intense sensation of pleasure, the sheer bliss and the tingling feeling…ORGASM.

Most women are having hard time reaching their peak during intercourse. In fact, according to statistics, 50% of women never orgasm with intercourse “alone” and one in six never orgasm at all.

No, it’s not that your partner is not working hard to satisfy you. It’s never his fault. It’s your anatomy. If your clitoris is too far from your vagina, no matter how hard your beau work on his tricks, you’ll never gonna get that euphoria. If the distance is more than 3cm, women will never experience orgasm with intercourse alone.

So, how do we solve this problem? Most women don’t. Why? Because they are too shy or even afraid to admit to their partner for they might offend him. The result? Most women fake their orgasm to please their dude, get his approval and boost his ego.

But the fake orgasm has to stop. How? By adding a personal touch to your sex life. It’s time to get that vibrator you’ve been staring at on your screen for who-knows how long. So go on. Discuss it with your partner, get real and honest with him. One key to a successful realtionship is an open communication and a great sex. What’s better than hearing him say your name when you both reach your climax? Now, cuddle up and touch with a help in hand.

Discover your wild side

couple2 300x239 Discover your wild sideDiscover your wild side… Awaken your fantasies… Carrie Bradshaw once had a write-up about the “terrible twos” – no, she did not refer to this as the stage of an infant where he would always resists and say “no” to his parent’s rules on play and toys and would ask “why” to anything he is curious about, but she tackled the first 2 years of couple’s relationship.

The first two years of a relationship is the design and plan phase where two grown-ups, mature and in love decide how they will grow their years as a couple. This stage also refers to the period of adjustment, exploring each individual’s sexual needs and preferences.

A successful relationship or even marriage is not always finding love and being idealistic about it. Most of the remaining years are spent for lust and companionship which means, this is more about having an exciting and pleasurable sexual life with your partner. Bedroom intimacy intensifies love. Intimacy by foreplay, intimacy by means of using sex toys to add spice and intimacy by means of cherishing one another.

The first two years should drive the couple’s exploratory mission to attaining the “highs” of their passion and discover stimulating sensations. – Pleasure Shop Philippines

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