When Boredom Over Sex Strikes
Nowadays, we are stormed with sexualized advertisements, suggestive TV shows and aggressive articles suggesting that the key to great sex is simply a no-holds-barred approach and a satin thong. Thus, it’s no wonder why so many women or maybe men suffer in silence.
Very few women would dare admitting that they feel unhappy, unloved and miserable in their own bed and are clueless why their husband no longer desires them, wondering where the good sex went? Or has their passion been gradually taken away by domesticity and boredom?
Given the above premises, can it be rekindled by just having a one free night without your kids, your laundry or any work related deadlines?
It keeps me hanging and longing for answers…
Maybe I just need a little more of tenderness..
Maybe I just have to tell him exactly what I need..
Maybe magic should spark even just by gazing upon his slightly bulging physique..
Maybe it’s just a simple matter of being spontaneous and just doing it..
Expert says that couples with good sex lives, it transpires, meet each other half way. Sometimes one isn’t in the mood, but does it anyway and ends up enjoying it. Sometimes a cuddle is enough.
According to some happy couples, it’s a simple matter of Just Doing It. A combination of husbands scaling down the pestering and giving more practical help with children and housework, and women simply choosing to have sex, rather than waiting for lightning to strike, was the unexpectedly simple key.
But in long-term relationships, sexual frustration isn’t usually about sex at all: it’s about loneliness and rejection.
And maintaining desire isn’t all about hormones and hotel rooms: it’s much more a matter of choosing to show your partner you love them – even if you don’t always feel like it.
Maybe I just want the chance to be physically closer to him, and to feel loved and accepted in return, despite my stained underarm and round tummy..
Oh yes, maybe exploring and using the so-called sex toys can help me strike out that boredom and make my bed a happy one once again..
It may be difficult to imagine those worlds of tricks and toys, positions, pulsations, vibrations, but maybe it is worth giving it a try and this imagination led me to this site.